In an environment where leaders are loudly and proudly shouting about how good they are at gender diversity and inclusion – they seem to be ignoring the massive risk that’s looming!
We see MALE CHAMPIONS of CHANGE being very vocal – which I applaud (for the genuine!)
…..but I can’t help but wonder how many of them, who really don’t have a clue as to what is going on in their organisations, aren’t more concerned about the clear risks of inauthentic messages!
Now it’s a long time since I donned my legal cap (yes I actually started my career as a lawyer many moons ago – please don’t hold it against me – I was a crap lawyer – and I saw the light very quickly!) …..but the legal risk of some massive action by women against their organisations seems really obvious to me!
Let me spell it out:
The organisation says:
“We are an equal opportunity employer”
“We have closed the gender pay gap here”
“We do not tolerate sexual harassment in this organisation”
“We are proudly an ‘employer of choice’ for women”
When the reality is in the same organisation:
- Women are leaving in droves
- Harassment is still not taken seriously – “can’t you take a joke!”
- The ‘boys club’ is alive and well and retains its sense of entitlement
- ‘Best person for the job’ is a reflection of the type of person who has always done the job
- This attitude prevails: If a woman is prepared to do the role for 25% less than her male peers – why wouldn’t a hiring manager jump on the cost saving?
- An IWD event, a flex policy, an annual report and some loud ‘box ticking’ slaps on the back is all that is required to stand loud and proud
- Women who can see through the BS and become even angrier that their organisations are presenting a false outward story
- Women still facing all the same issues
- Women in a #metoo environment deciding ENOUGH – and opening the can of worms that organisations have been so determined to contain.
Women are becoming a lot more courageous in their desire to speak out – and they are taking action.
Organisations need to be VERY careful about what they say – it’s basically misleading and deceptive conduct to make statements that are patently untrue – and it sets the organisation up for an even bigger risk than ever before.
Does this mean that the leaders in these organisations are bad, deceptive people?
They genuinely believe that they are doing all the right things. They don’t know what they don’t know – and that ignorance is going to come back to bite them.
CEOs and senior leadership teams are being fed the ‘good news’ diversity story. Diversity leads deliver the positive and rarely the negative. Are leaders asking the right questions? Do organisations ignore the bad and focus on the good to their detriment?
I was with a leadership team where I was told ‘we have DONE gender – we are going back in time’ – they practically kicked me out of the room, they didn’t want to hear it. And yet, in the same organisation- women are exiting at an alarming rate. The retention issue is being masked by furious recruitment drives targeting women!
Uber was shaken to its core by the blog of the brave Susan Fowler going viral and unearthing an insidious avalanche!
Google sacked the man who voiced his opinion and spoke out against gender diversity measures- because they were clearly not explained to him properly.
I don’t know about you – but I smell some very big law suits fuelled by angry women brewing.
The truth is that most leaders and organisations really have their ‘training wheels’ on when it comes to gender diversity. I always underscore to leaders that they MUST be very vulnerable and honest about this. Admission that you may not get it right, that you are trying and that you really want help may go against the party line of ‘it’s all good around here’ BUT…..being real and authentic will do much to douse the flames and get an organisation to a real solution.
Getting to a real solution means you need to be open and honest, yes, warts and all, about the reality. It’s like trying to force the alcoholic to go to AA – it’s never going to work unless he accepts that he IS an alcoholic!
It’s always easier to help someone who admits they have a problem. It’s time for organisations to get their heads out of the sand, stop the ‘ra ra’ and get real about the issues. Otherwise it’s going to cost them BIG TIME!